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Why do they hate me?

3/27/2025

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The following is a story about serving at Rose’s Bounty this past Friday, March 21, 2025.

We had enough volunteers Friday. This freed me to walk up and down the registration line handing out “know your rights” red cards asking, “Are you or anyone in your community concerned about immigration.” I received three notable responses:
  • No. Most folks who felt they were safe because of the color of their skin or the color of their passport, acknowledge a sense of sadness, mingled with guilt, that others were not safe.
  • Yes. Many trusting eyes met mine, thanking me for the work we were doing at the pantry. Yes they would like to take some red cards for themselves, their neighbors, their family members. Usually these “yeses” were followed with stories of immigration statuses in limbo, neighbors who would not leave their apartments, or family members who were detained. The visible fear, mixed with a relief that there were people who cared, was palpable. My eyes often filled with tears as I left the client with a red card and the words, “You belong here. We want you here.”
  • Silence. Behind that silence was often a wordless bottled-up fear. I estimate I placed my hand gently on about 10 clients and spoke the words, “You belong here.” It was my prayer and a cry to God. Many did not understand my words, but I know that these undocumented citizens understood that there was a place where they were welcome.  My hand and welled-up-eyes communicated that there were others who saw their flight, even if we did not understand its depth. Human connection was all I could offer.

There were two responses that did not fit into the above categories.

One woman did not respond with the usual “thank you” nor did she remain silent, instead she looked at me with utter innocent confusion, “Why are they doing this? We are not all criminals. Do they really think we are criminals? I have been in this country for X years and I have never done anything but work. I pay my taxes. I don’t understand. Why do they hate us?” I had no response. I had only tears rolling down my face as I responded, “I don’t know. I am so sorry. I am so, so sorry. You didn’t do anything wrong.” This woman’s disbelief confirmed for me that our current administration’s treatment of immigrants has to do with only one thing: hate. Racism too, but hate feeds racism. 

Another woman exploded. The raw emotional anguish I witnessed haunts me still. I tried to calm her, but I realized quickly that not only was calming her fruitless, it also wasn’t a helpful response. This woman’s suffering needed to be expressed and she needed someone to listen. Through tearful shouts she declared, “I have been wiping their parents’ butts for 25 years. They do not want to take care of their parents. They do not do the things for their parents that I do. Why do they hate me?” As I left this woman, Jesus words on the cross wove with her words, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me? Why do you hate me?”

The weight of the federal administration's attack on our communities was evident on Friday. The immigrants I spoke to, waiting in line for fresh produce and meat and dependable food staples, are simply humans. They are members of our community. They work. They raise their families. They laugh. They snuggle in bed on cold winter days and rejoice when spring arrives. And they cry. They rage. They wonder: how can this be happening in a country that claims to be a democracy? How can this happen in a country that declares it is Christian?

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LOVE your IMMIGRANT Neighbor: Practical steps to support undocumented citizens and build community. 4th Blog of 4

3/11/2025

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"For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me" -Matthew 25:31-40

FOURTH OF FOUR BLOGS: Explain to your immigrant neighbor that they have rights regardless of their immigration status.
You are an advocate! You have created a relationship with an undocumented member of your community. You have even helped them organize their legal documents. Now it is time again to remind your undocumented neighbor that they do have rights, even though in this current political environment it feels like they do not. Teach them the following:

Know Your Rights: The ACLU emphasizes that regardless of immigration status, individuals have constitutional rights, including the right to due process, freedom from unreasonable searches and seizures, and protection from discrimination.
 
Your rights:
  • You have the right to remain silent and do not have to discuss your immigration or citizenship status with police, immigration agents, or other officials. Anything you tell an officer can later be used against you in immigration court.
  • If you are not a U.S. citizen and an immigration agent requests your immigration papers, you must show them if you have them with you.
  • If an immigration agent asks if they can search you, you have the right to say no. Agents do not have the right to search you or your belongings without your consent or probable cause.
  • If you’re over 18, carry your papers with you at all times. If you don’t have them, tell the officer that you want to remain silent, or that you want to consult a lawyer before answering any questions.

Don't be afraid to exercise your rights: If you are approached by law enforcement, you have the right to remain silent, to ask for an attorney, and to refuse to answer questions that could incriminate you. 

How to reduce risk to yourself if a law enforcement agent asks about your immigration status:
  • Stay calm. Don’t run, argue, resist, or obstruct the officer, even if you believe your rights are being violated. Keep your hands where the police can see them.
  • Don’t lie about your status or provide false documents.
  • If you are driving and are pulled over, the officer can require you to show your license, vehicle registration and proof of insurance, but you don’t have to answer questions about your immigration status.

Additional resources
  • If you need more information, contact your local ACLU affiliate. 
  • National Immigration Law Center: Know Your Rights
  • A Toolkit for Organizations Responding to Mass Worksite Immigration Raids
  • Immigrant Legal Resource Center
  • American Immigration Lawyers Association
  • ACLU VIDEO: What to do if stopped by police or ICE

Together, we can confront this moment. We can defend our values. We can assert our power. We can protect our community. God, and time, are on our side.

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LOVE your IMMIGRANT Neighbor: Practical steps to support undocumented citizens and build community. 3rd Blog of 4

3/5/2025

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"God defends the cause of the orphan and the widow, and loves the foreigner residing among you, giving them food and clothing." -Deuteronomy 10:18-19 

THIRD OF FOUR BLOGS: Obtain Legal Documents and Organize Important Information
You have identified yourself as an advocate for immigrants and maybe blessedly you have built an unexpected and beautiful relationship with an undocumented person or an undocumented community. What next?

There are a number of legal documents that undocumented citizens should have in order. These documents do not require a lawyer. They require a notary. It is hard to know exactly what legal documents each individual immigrant should have. Here are a few that my research and practical experience suggest are essentials. If you need further information, please visit the ACLU site.

Children:
If you are assisting a family with children under 18 make sure the family has a notarized document indicating legal guardianship. The legal guardian must be a documented American citizen. Why is this necessary if the individual has lots of family around them who will of course take care of their child if they are deported? If an undocumented parent is deported, their child will in all likelihood be placed in a group foster home. It doesn’t matter if that child has many relatives. If these relatives are undocumented, they will not be granted the right to care for this child. This is heartbreakingly painful. Just writing these words makes tears spring to my eyes. It is essential that every child of an undocumented immigrant has a legal document clearly stating who their legal guardian (with citizenship) is. This is a painful topic that many parents cannot bear to speak about, but they must. A legal guardian can make sure a child is safely returned to their parents if deported to their country of origin, or that child can be placed with relatives in their community. Most importantly, a legal guardian can advocate for this child and communicate with this child’s parents.

Make sure all children have a copy of their legal guardianship and know who their guardian is. If the child is too young to be responsible for such paperwork, make sure another childcare provider has these documents. Include in this paper work the name and number of the child’s primary care doctor or any other important medical information, including a list of medications. 

Finally, make sure children know how to contact you or another safe person in their community in case of emergency. Make sure the child has these names and numbers printed in a prominent place in their home and in a safe place in their backpack or with their child care provider.  

Financial Access/Power of Attorney: 
When undocumented citizens are deported they lose all access to the money they have saved in the U.S. if it is in a bank account. There are a few ways to ensure this does not happen. Many immigrants share bank accounts with a trusted friend or family member, ensuring that if they are deported someone will still have access to their account. Another way is for an undocumented citizen to grant a documented citizen power of attorney.  A power of attorney (POA) is a legal document that allows someone (the "agent" or "attorney-in-fact") to act on behalf of another (the "principal") in certain matters, such as financial or healthcare decisions, if the principal is unable to do so themselves. 

Create a list of emergency contacts 
Make sure this list of contacts is shared with family members and trusted individuals. 

Create a folder with the following information:
  • Copies with everything mentioned above: guardianship, POA, bank account information, emergency contacts
  • Copies of passports, licenses, and birth certificates
  • Attorney information 
  • Medical information, including a list of any medication and or serious medical conditions.

With permission from the undocumented citizen, make copies of all important documents and keep them in a safe place in your home for your immigrant neighbor. In fact, make a couple of copies. Depending on who the immigrant neighbor trusts, it's good to have a few people with access to this information, such as family members, trusted neighbors and friends, pastor, etc.

Further documents that our immigrant neighbors should ALWAYS carry with them:
  • Identification documents, such as a passport or driver's license.
  • If they have legal status, they should provide proof of their legal status, such as a green card or visa. 
  • Don't carry falsified documents: Never carry or use fake documents, as this can lead to legal consequences. 
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